Our server admins are generally easy going people and want you to have fun while playing on our servers but even they have their limits.
The easiest way to get along on our servers is to follow the rules posted here:
http://darksaintproductions.com/e107_plugins/forum/forum_viewtopic.php?588.Pay particular attention to item 2. If you're lucky, arguing with or swearing at an admin will only result in a temp ban but that is left up to the individual admin's discretion.
Follow the rules. Don't let your frustration cause you to lose a good server to play on.
Just another note here. Someone who is trouncing you is not necessarily cheating. Some of us have been playing SOF2 for years. We're not cheating, we're just better than you. With practice, you'll get better. We're willing to help you get better. Just ask.