I never considered myself a gamer until I met my husband, who proceeded to introduce me to my closet inner gamer. Especially the role-playing games ... I'd gotten so far from the things about my childhood that defined me, and I never in a million years thought I'd reconnect with that through video games. Now all of a sudden I find myself using the lingo like a pro and hanging out with good people whose company I enjoy, people who remind me of my childhood friends.
I don't care what anyone says, playing video games is a cathartic and necessary part of life. It gives us a chance to be kids again.

Not to say people don't abuse the privilege, but I'm here to say it is possible to play video games and not be "addicted" and still get on with your "real" life.