If you want to add me to your friends list, first make sure I am not playing a game. Xfire still has not fixed the current behavior that friend invites in game override all other functionality (you cannot do anything with XIG before responding to the invite) and if you go out of the game, the invite is automatically denied.

And as I always look up information of the person trying to add me, it means your invite will be automatically rejected by Xfire if you send it while I am in game.

I'm also waiting for the day when one can use Xfire when a friend invite is pending. As it is now, a friend invite blocks you from using Xfire at all. Only the existing chat windows are accessible but the main interface is locked.

So if your friend invite got rejected, don't feel bad about it. I just want to use Xfire and your invite prevented me from doing that.

(PS. If you actually want a chance of your invite being accepted, remember to state some kind of reason for your friendship request. "Add me to your friends list" won't cut it.)